Showing posts with label moving. Show all posts
Showing posts with label moving. Show all posts

11.30.2011

blarg

so if you cant tell by my 5-6 month absence this year, ive either been busy, pre-occupied, or lost interest in this thing... im not entirely sure which is the winner. some morbid manifestation of them all? perhaps.

[cincy.house]
most of you are pretty up to date because one of the main reasons i started this thing was to update my long lost family back home on the status of the house and cincy in general [this was before the name change & relocation obviously] since relocating, i talk to most of you much more often and we discuss these things more often. but i suppose there are perhaps those of you out there that have read this blog from afar or perhaps dont stay in such close contact with me - to you, i do apologize, and will henceforth briefly update you.

the short answer is that nothing has happened. we finally finished reconstruction the last day of september, and we've paid everyone everything we owe them. we put the house back on the market, but had no interest worth mentioning in it since [nearly two months now?]

the crazy girl has popped up over and over and in the last 6 months we were forced to retain legal services and subsequently pay a shit-ton [i think thats metric] of money for essentially nothing. about every two months she pops back up with some nonsense amendment or letter that we have to pay to have our attorney, yet again, squash, disprove and render pointless... and then she disappears for two months.... i guess its about time for more of her nonsense? who knows. who cares. shes certifiable.

other than that, we discussed at great length the option of renting the house and have since gone through all the necessary paperwork and such to hire a property management company to handle things and get it rented out. they have another couple of weeks to find a tenant before the 45 day deadline - that come to think of it, i have absolutely no idea what happens after it expires. they seem certain that they can find a tenant before their time is up, so here's hoping they are correct. if we do manage to successfully rent this thing out it would cancel out the payments we're still making on it and in the end actually service as a modicum of additional income - sweet!

and that my friends, is the house update. such as it is.

[work]
work is good. staying moderately busy working on a handful of things. i still really enjoy my job and the freedom its granted me in addition to the obvious benefits of being gainfully employed. no worries here, i appear to be quite secure in the continued availability of my position as well as the continued happiness of my superiors. time and again i appear to have exceeded their expectations and they continue to assign me more responsibility, more respect, and more inclusion in things than i ever really could have imagined. as far as fellow employees go, i honestly like everyone ive met and have reoccurring contact with. there are certainly a few here or there that tend to have less than ideal personalities, but hey, to coin a common cliche - thats why they invented 32 flavors, eh? i dont mind. if im having a day where someone or someones are becoming an annoyance for whatever reason, i can simply turn up my headphones, shut my door and drown out my surroundings while i work away in the comfort of my office. [well, until i start to cook and have to allow in some ventilation, but those are sufficiently spaced intervals.] in summary, work is good.

[everything else?]
not really sure what to say. i could update you all on my wifes life, but really, shouldnt she be doing that? i dont really have the inclination.

||gadgets||
i did get a new toy for my birthday last weekend - yes, you missed it, and i'll only forgive you in the wake of lavish gifting - a kindle fire. you've probably seen them in the news, theyre supposed to be one of the most popular gifts this holiday season and are expected to be the only realistic rival to the ipad2.

i can say that in the few days ive had this thing it has completely abducted me. i am engulfed in its intricacies and discovering what all it has to offer. the main reason i wanted one was for games, movies, and books to take along on our cruise in a couple of weeks and so far im not disappointed in the offerings.

i havent yet started to purchase books for it, but ive done extensive wish listing on amazon and will soon make some decisions about purchase. the quality i can get in video is more than satisfying although i havent yet figured out how to get movies/tv shows directly to the device instead of streaming from the cloud... [apologies for all the tech-jargon if youre clueless] and lastly the games.

ive never been too terribly into mobile device gaming, but im starting to understand it a little better. other than a few word games that were mostly encouraged by the wifey, i hadnt really found any games that interested me much on them. oh sure, i test drove a few and they were fun for a little while, but after about 5 minutes, i was bored with most of them. not that i really have a ton of time for gaming anyhow, but its certainly part of the device experience these days. well, since acquiring my fire, ive found a few games im really enjoying. one is a pinball game that really took me back to pinball on our old win95. man its been years since i played that, but i rather enjoyed it then, and had a good time tinkering with it on the fire the other day. and then last night i really found some winners. i rediscovered mahjong [again, probably not since win95] and had a good time cussing it as i relearned the game, and even better was a crossword puzzle game. never been huge on crossword puzzles, but this proved to be very enjoyable as karen and i teamed up and spent a solid hour or two trying to solve the puzzles. we dont really play a lot of games together and this was actually a lot of fun for me, so that seems like a winner.

other than that, karen seems to be a bit annoyed with the thing, and im afraid shes starting to regret gifting it. i dont feel like ive really been playing with it to the extent of ignoring her or neglecting my husband-ly duties, but she certainly seems off-put whenever i pick it up. im not sure why really, but im obviously not seeing things from her perspective. honestly, im just really enthralled with figuring out all that it can do and how it does it, and once the newness and the mystery wears off, im sure itll be less enthralling, and hopefully less intrusive. either way, i am enjoying it. =]

||house||
the only other item i really feel inclined to comment on is houses. not the one in cincy though, here in houston. for those of you that dont already know, karen and i have taken a serious look at things and have decided we are ready to buy in houston, and as such, have begun the process. we met with a mortgage adviser at our bank and found out that i have awesome credit and we've been unofficially approved for a more sizable  mortgage than i had ever expected and with a very reasonable interest rate in my perspective.

we've enlisted the help of a close friend/realtor to help us with the search and have started scouring the city for that perfect house. so far we havent found it, but have been able to really start nailing down what things we do want, dont want, areas and neighborhoods we are and arent interested in, things we're willing to compromise on, and the price range we actually want to be in - and what that looks like in terms of potential houses.

its a process and its ongoing. ideally we'd like to close on something before january 1st for financial reasons, but at this point its not looking terribly likely. who knows, perhaps that perfect-for-us house is lurking just around the next corner. in the meantime we have some solid options that we're planning to try and get showing for by the end of this week. we've already done one round of these that was a little disappointing, but thats all part of the process, im not discouraged yet.

hopefully it all turns out.

hmm...
so i guess thats all i have for now. not much of an update, sorry. hope i didnt ramble too much. really hope you all had a happy thanksgiving - please do me a great favor and ignore anything and everything fox news is reporting about the president's non-official thanksgiving you-tube video. actually, if you really want to do me a favor, never watch fox news again - what a bunch of idiots...

okay, thats it.


3.13.2011

lone.star.livin'

as i sit here typing, the window next to me depicts the serene images of leisurely life at its utmost. the palms gently swaying in the sea breezes, the small song birds happily chirping and flitting around playing a lively game of tag, the hint of saltwater and sand floating on the air, and of course the rousing chorus of the 3 pugs chasing each other, fighting over the most select toy, and all-the-while attempting to breathe through their genetically deformed air passages... [the latter, perhaps less serene...]
yes thats right y'all, im in texas. and on the texas coast to be more specific. home-again-home-again-jigitty-jig.
its been several months since i last updated the ole' blog, and much has changed. most of you that actually read this are close enough that you're already aware of most of the events of my life, however, supposing there are the rare few out there in the entire world [and beyond...?]that might per-chance stubble upon this and decide its worth a read, follow-along as i briefly wrap up the major events of the recent past and set the scene for future-posts.

[the.job.situation]
when last we spoke [er, wrote?] i was embarking on a little adventure of landscaping with my friend from n'awlins and we had completed a few little jobs with some success. well that lasted about as long as you read.
we never ended up getting another job [i think it was really just the seasons changing] even though we bid on a number of them. after a couple of weeks however, i was desperate for cash-flow again and sought some other income situation.
i still had the itt job at this point and was enjoying my first class [and getting the hang of it a bit more as time went on] however the minuscule salary of a new adjunct teaching one class is not something to sustain one's extravagant lifestyle... ;]
so to shorten the longevity of my verboseness in the instance, i posted an ad on the church website boasting my qualifications, and through a series of serendipitous events, i ended up working for jones the florist [the name in florists in the greater cincinnati area] that ended up being a pretty great experience for a few months. i started out doing candy bouquets[if you dont know what that is, just go to their website...] and as it would turn out was quite the craftsman. i picked this little skill up very quickly and in a few days was pretty much the fastest person on production in the place. so i candied for a couple of months while they got through some big seasonal orders and then when the seasonal time was up i inquired about staying on for a bit longer if theyd have me...
meanwhile - in those months at jones, i had been offered and accepted another classes for the following quarter at itt, took up karate in my "spare" time, and then as i looked into extending my stay at jones, was offered and accepted 2 classes for the upcoming quarter and had a couple of promising interviews.
one of the interviews was with one of the biggest architecture firms in cinicnnati [and while i wont play the dropping names game, they're huge and "worldwide"...] and i was very excited about the prospect. this was the dream job in the cincinnati area and since karen and i had resolved to sticking around there, this was a big deal. in conjunction with that, i started interviewing, via the vast world-wide telecommunications network, for a position in a construction firm in houston. [spoiler alert! if you havent yet read the title of the blog.... um.... dont.]
well jones decided to hire me on as a delivery driver because of my mad-skillz and obvious awesomeness and i enjoyed working for them through december. the interview with the b-i-g arch firm was less than fruitful in the immediate present-tense sense of things - although it was a great feeling knowing they were interested and seriously considering me! - and as it would turn out i was offered and accepted the job in houston. [shocker. i know.]
thus begun a whirlwind of activity revolving this drastically life-altering occurance...

[h-t-x]
so... heres the run-down on h-town.

i interviewed for this position for a bout a span of a month's time and on the friday before karen and i were supposed to leave for our annual christmas voyage to the south to see the family, the construction company emailed me the offer letter.
i thought it over [but not for long - this was an amazing opportunity!] and discussed it with family and friends over the weekend, and then first thing monday morning i accepted and we got the ball rolling.
the next day [tuesday] karen and i flew out to texas for our holiday vacation and i stayed in loose contact with my new boss via email - and while we were in texas anyway and so near our soon-to-be-home, we decided to get started on some of the more menial tasks of setting up bank accounts and starting the apartment hunt...
on the 28th of december we flew back to cinicnnati and at this point it had been decided that my start date would be january 10. for anyone not doing the math, thats about a week and a half that i had to be back in texas and ready to start the job with my truck, and any belongings of mine that i would need in texas, as well as helping karen as much as humanly possibly to pack up our house, get rid of whatever we werent taking and generally begin the moving process...
i needed to embark on the cross-country drive by no later than the 5th to have 2 days for the actual driving part and a couple of days to get settled in and ready to start work on the 10th.
so between dec 28 and jan 5 karen and i worked like crazy people to go through our entire house and get rid of anything and everything we could do-without so that we didnt have to move it cross-country.
we sold off furniture on criagslist, had an extensive garage sale to rid ourselves of smaller items, donated a ton of stuff to the church and local clothes-closets, had contractors come in and do some of the final repairs we just hadnt gotten around to yet on the house and now had no time to do and needed to be done before the move/sale, got the house put on the market and worked with the realtor to figure out the best plan of attack, said goodbye to as many dear friends as i could before i left, and in the end... karen still ended up having to stay in cincinnati another 3 weeks after i left to finish all of the above...
of course that then precludes to the ensuing madness of my driving to texas and staying with josh and cassie for the short-term while i searched for an apartment and a place to move all of our crap, started the new job and got settled in, had miscellaneous issues with the truck that needed to be dealt with [for instance i ended up needing to have all 4 tires replaced after the journey south, or the entire engine maintenance checkup i was 10,000 miles over-due on, etc., etc., etc.... ]...

in the end however. we arrived safely. we got everything moved. we found an apartment. i started my job and have settled pretty well into it. karen has since found a temporary job shes enjoying teaching swimming lessons in houston, while still searching for that perfect career job of her own. and last - but certainly not least - we have had quite the rollercoaster of events surrounding the sale of the cincy-house....

but that my friends... is a story for another time.
and with that - im signing off. hope to post more soon-ish, but with life's many obstacles, who really knows?

god bless texas, and have a good-un y'all. =]


1.13.2009

the.chronicles.of.decem... ef.[5.of.x]

christmas
moving
kitchen
new years
craigslist
electrical
roof

ack! ive told you guys so much, but theres still so much left! this is getting exhausting, but we are making progress... i guess...
 so we've now made it half-way through new years, lets just pick up there and keep this thing going, hm? im bound to catch up eventually. especially since theres nothing going on in the present worth mentioning that you arent already aware of, so that helps. i guess.

new years[2nd.half]
so new years day we slept in considering the festivities from the night before and the time we went to bed. i think we got up around 11am and after very short deliberation we agreed we were both in the mood for a diner breakfast. also on the agenda for the day was going to the depot to use more gift cards, but we'll get to that later. since we were alreay headed in the direction of the depot we tried to figure out what diner breakfast establishments were in the near vicinity. after a lot of thought we finally remembered day break. for those of you living in and around the cincinnati area, youre probably familiar with day break in the hyde park shopping center. its a small, quaint little restaurant that serves breakfast all day [for a decent price and from our experience a good quality meal] in a nice relaxing atmosphere - EXACTLY what we were in the mood for. 
well given that it was new years day and inching ever closer to noon, we werent even sure if they were going to be open [not much else was as we drove there] but to our surprise and elation, it was! so we parked and trotted up to the door only to find a line stretching to the door of people waiting to be seated. well... that was fine with us. we really werent in a hurry and karen really really wanted breakfast, so we figured it wouldnt be terrible to wait. especially after we overheard from the girl in front of us, that had just returned from asking, that the wait to be seated was only 20 minutes. pft, that aint bad at all. so at this point its roughly 11:45am and we're now in line to be seated in roughly 25-30 minutes [conservatively]. 
so we waited our turn in line discussing the projects we were intending to work on later that day, the materials we wanted to get [most of this pertaining to the fore-mentioned pegboard wall/kitchen project + a little more], listening to the conversations of those around us [i heard the most fascinating conversation from the people in front of us about the design and construction of a carbon fiber bike frame and i was practically entranced, lol! it was very interesting stuff!], and other general waiting type stuff. finally we arrived at the front of the line, requested our table and a few minutes later were shuffled to our seats. at this point it had been closer to a half our from my memory, but we were in high spirits and starving! 
eventually our waitress made her way to our table to bring us some water and take our order. the first question she asked was if wed like a pitcher of coffee [they bring a whole pitcher to your table and leave it, pretty sweet deal] and after inquiring about the wait - it might be a little while - we decided most definitely we needed coffee. so while she went to get the coffee we decided what delicious mouthwatering breakfast entrees we were in the mood for that morning [karen = the flying pig omlette, which has every kind of breakfast meat you can get from a pig piled in a 4 egg omlette with day break potatoes, & cheddar & jack cheese. me = the loaded skillet, which has eggs, cheese, daybreak potatoes, & two other options from a list - i chose steak and avacado! and to share between us, a couple of big fluffy pancakes with all the trimmings. we were hungry yall. period.] and when she finally [not exaggerating here] returned with our coffee we excitedly gaver her our order and started in on our coffee. 
this is where the story takes a turn... i dont remember exactly how long it took, karen and i got quite carried away in conversation about our respective college experiences, dorm life, city life, and the food options - dont ask me how we got on the topic because i cant remember that much. i was wearing my a&m hoodie, perhaps that sparked it, but eventually the woman sitting within about a foot and a half of me [definitely in my bubble] at the next table leaned over exasperated and asked "just exactly how long have you been here?" well we took a second, thought about it, looked at our watches... hmm... it had been a while, a long while, and my stomach was in knots. well we realized at that point we'd been there about an hour and a half since ordering and this woman and her child had arrived soon after us. well...she was starting to get livid. the waitress was no where to be found and as we surveyed the tables around us we realized that NO one had food at their table. well this woman wasnt exactly reserved with  her opinions whcih sparked conversation with a number of tables around us one of which revealed that shed talked to the hostess a few times, the waitress had been missing for a while and the manager had apparently locked himself in his office and no one had heard from him in quite some time... uh-oh... this wasnt good... soon the waitress did reappear and we discovered after a lot of effort that they were short staffed in the kitchen, they werent calling anyone else, it would be at LEAST 20 more minutes for our food but she couldnt say for sure, and there was nothing she could do about it. well at this point the woman behind us was irrate and she eventually left with her child in a storm of animosity while questioning the sanity of those of us still seated. haha! we had to laugh, because she was very very right. so karen and i discussed our options at length, i went to the restroom while she thought it over, and once i returned we [also quite exasperated at this point] decided to give up and get some freaking food already. there was really no end in sight to the waiting, no one could give us any time frame, and a number of people clapped and cheered as we left our coffee cups sitting on the table, lol! at that point we'd waited something like 2 hours, and i think thats pretty much my limit - especially when the manager isnt doing anything to correct the problem!! ive worked in a restaurant, ive pulled double duty, hell ive pulled triple duty. you try managing, cooking, waiting tables, and bartending with one other co-worker during a lunch rush for nearly an entire summer... its not fun, but you get pretty good at it, lol! this idiot should have called some cooks in, he should have been back there cooking himself, he should have been making the rounds apologizing and comping drinks, he should have done SOMETHING! but no. not a damn thing. i think its sufficient to say that i am now boycotting day break for a period yet to be determined, i doubt itll be anytime in the forseeable future.
i dont know how much longer the rest of those people waited before they regained their sanity, but i had plenty of clarity, haha! so karen and i circled to the other side of the parking lot and went to tgi-fridays, where there was no line, no wait, and they were mysitified by our story, lol! well we sat down ordered some really amazing food and indulged our appetites until we couldnt eat another bite... it was incredibly satisfying... you cant even imagine. i think my favorite part was the ultimate mudslide drink we shared, man this thing was amazing!
so after our lunch fiasco, we made our way to the depot for the productive portion of our day. at home depot we went straight to the paint department where we spent the next half hour to 45 minutes staring at paint swatches, coordinating, discussing, planning, and eventually selecting the color palattes for the kitchen, the parlor, and the dining room, and taking all of it to the mixer-man to mix-up for us. well at two cans per wall color and one can per ceiling and accent color for 3 rooms, it was going to take a little time, so we left the paint center to see about finding our peg board. well friends, this is the point in the story where the depot now disappoints us. their selection in peg board was all but non-existent. and as for hooks and hangers for peg board, there were none to be found - anywhere. so a little disheartened we returned to the paint center to pick up our paint, and the check out with the paint and a few other items [like a new ladder, a few small paint brushes, tape, etc.] and boy howdy was it expensive! who knew you could spend so much money on painting supplies! good thing we had gift cards, lol! ;]
so now what? we didnt find our peg board and accessories... the only other option we had was lowes, whcih just happened to be about a block away, lol! we hadnt yet been to a lowes in cincy, and i hadnt been to one at all in quite some years, so we didnt know what to expect, but decided to give it a shot. well i tell you what, we were impressed. not only did they have plenty of peg board options to choose from, they also had hooks and hangers, and there was never a moment when we couldnt find someone eager to help us! at the depot we're constantly searching the isles for someone to direct us to a product that we cant find, retrieve something we cant get our selves, or some other circumstance requiring a little assistance. granted we usually can find someone within a few minutes of searching, but at lowes they were everywhere! it was a nice change, ill tell you that. we got in and out in a flash with them directing us to all the things we wanted. so with that, i'll go ahead and say it - i might just have to switch! haha! granted, the depot has a comparable selection on most everything weve needed so far, and we do have a lot of gift card left to spend there, so we wont be leaving the depot any time soon, but i think we'll be considering our options from now on - especially since the two are so close to each other!

and thus, we conclude new years. im sure you thought we never would, heh. 

craigslist. 
well this topic should be considerably less long winded, but i guess we'll see how it goes - you know how i get. 
so the only reason i bring up craigslist is to again praise its awesome-nity [so great it deserves to have a word made up on its behalf!]. last weekend we really hit the craigslist jackpot and jackpots come in 3's!
first of all, we've been perplexed for a while now about the furniture to house ratio predicament we've found ourselves in. the house is more than 3 times the size of any apartment we've ever had, and while we do have 2 peoples worth of stuff + wedding presents, it still doesnt fill all the rooms or even come close really. at this point the most ostentatious problem we faced was the parlor. temporarily we had karens leather couch in the parlor, but it really didnt fit and we wanted it in the "media" space anyhow. we'd been thinking about it a while and had come to the conclusion that we wanted really big-fluffy-cushiony-comfy couches and chairs for the parlor because eventually we want it to be kind of a "slightlt less than formal living room + library" type space and large luxurious furniture works great for entertaining in a comforable atmosphere or kicking back with a book or your laptop. well anyway, we recently hit the jackpot [like i believe ive already mentioned] and found an entire set of furniture that closely matches what we were looking for, at only $200 for the entire set! we got a huge chair, a sofa, and a full size couch - complete with sueded micro-fiber slip covers - from a nice little indian couple who were having a baby soon and were ready to redecorate their entire place. the furniture was a little heavy and very difficult to move at first, but eventually we figured out how to hold it and moving it got significantly easier[although getting it through the front door certainly wasnt, lol!] 
second on the list was a true find - in that we werent even looking for it, we just happened upon it and it turned out to be an awesome buy [i promise ill try and put pictures of all these things up soon, i really didnt think to take any before now, sorry!]. its kind of a vintage wine rack/cage that holds up to 45 bottles [i think] and its just sooo cool! i dont think we'll ever get near that many bottles in it, but its a really fun little piece to have in the house and we just love it. not really too exciting of a story here, but we're really happy with the deal we got on it =]
lastly, wasnt a buy, but a sell. my old truck! thats right, the piece of crap truck that ive mentioned a few times on this blog, was actually sold. and for a damn good price too! certainly not anywhere near the money ive put into it [far far far from it...] but FOUR times what the salvage yards we called were offering! so yeah, im pretty ecstatic about that one. we put it up with some pictures at about 9pm and by the time we went to bed aroun 10:30 id already had about 11 e-mails from people interested in it. well, the guy we ended up selling to didnt flinch at the busted spindle and thought it would be a perfect addition to his farm as a work truck. its kind of poetic i guess... that thing started out as a work truck from some woman in houston [who took terrible care of it!], then came to me, and im sure it'll see the end of its days in a pasture somewhere now as well. and the circle of life comes round to completion, eh? well anyway, good ridance! =]

and now folks, its that time again. but hey! we made some serious progress! only two topics left for next time [most likely thursday's lunch, i have a l&l tomorrow, heh] and those should go pretty quick... well, haha, we'll see anyway. 

hope youre all enjoying the week so far, have a great evening!!

1.11.2009

the.chronicles.of.decembria[3.of.x]

the topical blog - noun : 1. kind of like a topical cream, only slightly less disgusting. not to be confused with a tropical blog which has insurmountably more pleasurable weather conditions.
2. a blog formatted on the basis of topics, rather than a chronological story line, in the attempt to create a slimmer, leaner, less verbose blog [for the sake of the readers/the sanity of the author] 

just to hopefully keep me on track, and possibly to keep you guys interested, im going to go ahead and list out the topics that i hope to cover in this blog, and if not, then one or two or however many it takes thereafter... [lets hope i can do it in one, i really dont like being so far behind]

christmas
moving
kitchen
new years
craigslist
electrical
roof

and with that, lets begin shall we?

christmas. 
well last i blogged, i believe i summed up christmas pretty well. we'd just finished christmas day and a wonderful feast and we were quite happy as we retired for the night. already the house felt like home and i dont think we ever had trouble adjusting to the new sleeping situation. 
the day following christmas, we made a terrible mistake. we'd gotten a number of gift cards from various friends and relatives and we were excited to spend them, not to mention i'd heard through an inside source of mine that target was going to be having a pretty sweet christmas sale on all their leftover merchandise and the wife and i were excited about stocking up on goodies for next year that we didnt get this time around. 
so like complete morons, we headed out to do some shopping on the day after christmas. [oh how naive we were...] so our first stop was target and it should have been an eye opening experience if we'd cared to pay attention. we spent about an hour to an hour and a half there leaving somewhere around 10:30 with a basket piled high of christmas decorating goodies we'd gotten for a very reasonable price. but it had been a total mad house in there. there were so many people picking through the leftovers it was nearly impossibly to maneuver a cart through the droves of post-holiday sale victims [ourselves included]. so this should have been our warning, and we should have gone home for a nice relaxing afternoon. but we didnt. 
we spent the rest of the day in traffic and going to forever 21, dillards, and american eagle at the mall and picking up a few items [mostly clothes, but a few accessories] with our gift cards. waiting in parking lots and sitting in mile long lines at stop lights did nothing to hinder our spirits however, and the gluttons for punishment that we are we also went to bed bath & beyond to finally use our wedding gift cards on some much needed drapery and window treatments, and then finally even to tj max for some serious husband torture while the wife took her time going through [and im pretty sure this is accurate] every single rack, garment by garment, and eventually leaving an hour and a half later with... nothing. thats right, nothing. ugh, that was a long shopping visit after we'd already spent the entire day shopping at it was somewhere around 7pm. i honestly cant even remember if we ate lunch in all the madness! lol! if i had the chance to do it all over again, id probably keep my ass on the couch with a movie and some hot chocolate, but we had fun and we did get quite a lot accomplished! =]

moving. 
saturday we made a pact to ourselves that we were going to get out of that apartment that weekend if it killed us, and thats exactly what we did. we got up early, made our way to the apartment with a load of empty boxes and some cleaning supplies and went through the exhausting task of packing up every single last item in the apartment, loading  - what ended up being 4 or 5 trips worth of boxes, the rest of the furniture, and other various items from the apartment - hauling to the house, unloading, and returning to the scene of the crime for more punishment. by the end of the night however, around 9pm, we'd done it. we were completely out of the apartment and only needed to take our keys and drop them off with the manager on sunday afternoon. 
actually, it wasnt all terrible, we managed to take a break at about lunch time to grab a quick bite and make a quick run to the salvation army where we found a couple more awesome hanging light fixtures that we were still in need of, a few more corner cabinets for a functional art project of karens, and [believe it or not] a few suit jackets for me, lol! you wouldnt believe the awesome selection our salvation army has on clothes. it was absolutely amazing! karen actually found what appeared to be a practically brand new express jacket in the womens suit jackets that she swears would have cost around $250 new, and was only 4 bucks! it was awesome. in the mens they had all kinds of name brands that id heard of, but regardless of labels they had just about every shape style and color you could imagine, ranging from the hilarious, to the very cool vintage, to the boring, you name it. we actually had a really good time there and by the time we left we'd only spent 35 bucks for a LOT of great finds! if you have a salvation army resale store near you and youre into this kind of stuff, i seriously recommend checking it out, we are always shocked at the fantastic stuff we find there. 

kitchen.
sometime early the next week [i think it may even have been monday] after a lot of discussion, karen and i had decided that we needed to make the kitchen our next project. most of the necessity arose from finally getting all of our stuff into the house [and it was a disaster by the way] and realizing that we had way more stuff than we had storage space in our kitchen. somewhere between everything karen had, everything i had, and everything we got for wedding gifts, we'd assembled about 2 kitchens worth of kitchen stuff and we only had this tiny little corner of cabinets in the kitchen to put it all in.... you do the math on that one. not to mention we had always thought the cabinets looked like they were in pretty good shape  and  would be perfectly fine to use for some time yet. well once we put on the new door hardware and started trying to clean these things we realized just how disgusting they really were, and as soon as we started putting stuff in them we realized how weak and poorly structured they were... so as a combination of all these things karen and i discussed at length what our options might be and ultimately decided we needed all new cabinets and a lot more of them pretty seriously.
i dont know how much research any of you have done into new cabinets, but we quickly found out that its a pretty expensive ordeal. that monday night we went first to a place in town called home emporium - and it is an awesome place! its kind of a salvage store of sorts and they sell a lot of bulk material and unfinished furniture, wholesale tile, man... it was remodeling paradise. we took our time going through the place and browsing all the different things in the store [and making mental notes for future projects of course!] but were mainly focused on the cabinets. our contractor [i suppose we'll get to him at some point] had told us this place had finished and unfinished kitchen cabinets for a really reasonable price, hence why we'd stopped by. however after we started looking at their selection, none of which was really our style.. it was all very ornate or more traditional looking, and seeing the price tags on everything [which we quickly did the math in our heads on what we were thinking about putting in] and seeing how limited we were in sizes and customization... we decided that these cabinets werent for us. [however, we're definitely going back for tile when we get around to those projects!!] which left our only other real option - ikea. 
i know theres a lot of opinions on both sides as to the quality, value, etc. of ikea furniture, but id always been impressed with their kitchens when id walked through their showroom. to me, they never looked cheap or ratty, and always seemed to have a more modern sleek style that was more in line with my own. so even though it was now around 6:30pm, karen and i decided to detour on our way home and check out what our options would be if we were to seriously consider ikea. well i really had no idea how many options there really were, but the entire process is a bit confusing at first. basically the way their kitchen cabinets are setup is in 3 parts. first there is the skeleton of the cabinets. all of their cabinets use the same skeleton of parts that come in a very wide range of sizes, shapes, depths, heights, you name it. the customization factor is no issue hear, you can really get almost anything you want and create whatever combination you desire. the second layer of their cabinets is in the shell. this is essentially the style of doors and panels that you like. so if you like the ultramodern with ultramodern finishes, or the more traditional style doors with more traditional finishes, if you want glass in some of your doors, if you want metal edges, if you want wood, plastic, the list goes on and on and on. so once you pick the shell, then theres the accents. this is all your hardware, your organizational inserts, that sort of thing. well anyway, it took us quite some time to go through the kitchen showroom and pick out the styles we liked, compare prices, figure out the whole 3 part system and how that worked, and come up with what we thought would work for us. by the end of the night we had a lot of fun ideas in our minds and a pretty good idea of what style we were thinking about getting, but we certainly werent jumping into anything just yet. 
since that initial day weve measured the kitchen out completely and ive modeled it in 3d and we've gone over a number of different arrangement options, color schemes, organization systems, etc. but the most determining factor of the whole extravaganza is really the price tag. and at this point we really just cant afford it - even if we do feel its a necessity. so we've also started thinking of some other more... creative or inventive, ways of dealing with our storage problem. well after some ingenuity and a little thinking outside the box we came up with a pretty slick solution that were really excited about. additionally the kitchen just needed a world of help and painting could do wonders for it aesthetically. 
at this point [some weeks later] we've completed the design, crafting, and installation of about two-thirds of our new storage system and weve gotten one wall fully painted with two coats, and two other walls painted [literally as i type this its drying] with the first coat. all this after a ton of scrubbing [like you wouldnt believe!], cleaning, plastering, taping, and prepping. but im happy to report its really coming along! we're extremely happy with the storage system so far and the color is just amazing! we love it! as with everything we've hit a few snags along the way so far. the track lighting in the kitchen for example, but we've powered through so far and we're really expecting a great turnout in the end! we've decided we're going to have to make due with the cabinets we do have for the time being, but we really would love to get the ikea kitchen someday in the future, its just hard to say when that might be. anyway, without further prolonging, how about a few before and progress shots of the kitchen hmm? haha, i know you want them! [try and keep in mind that the pictures really dont do the color justice, its really sensational in person!]


yeah, thats right, its peg board! haha, dont hate. it works perfectly on that wall because its too tight to ever put cabinets on, but also allows us to incorporate storage and we still have the space to work on the other walls we are thinking of putting cabinets or shelves on. its really a fantastic solution for our circumstances and we just love it! [i wouldnt recommend our set-up for a novice installation however, mostly considering the pain-staking assembly considerations and preparation, lol! it was a bit of a pain in the ass... to say the least.]

and thats where i think im going to stop. thats my lovely wife preparing dinner in the images and she just finished, so i think im going to indulge in a little of karens chicken chili! 

goodnight!

12.23.2008

as.the.mercury.falls[part.finale]

so picking up where we last left off, just a little recap:

the.weekend.of.december.20|21

we've made our way up to this past weekend[dec.20|21]. at this point in the story im getting over being sick, its been pretty freaking cold, so far it was in the teens last weekend and that was the coldest it had gotten yet and we were smart enough to move out of our storage unit in that weather. but we had officially gotten out of the storage unit and had put up christmas tree and decorations at the house. in addition to all of that, the roofers had been making some pretty good progress at the house with shingling and such. 
so a few things i forgot to mention in the last post about friday. on friday while karen was off from work she had the privilege of taking some time to go christmas shopping. up to this point we'd both been so busy with work that we hadnt had a chance to do any real christmas shopping for each other save one afternoon earlier in the week for a half an hour when i was working late that she snuck off and did a little. anyway so friday karen managed to get all the rest of her christmas shopping done and wrapped and all while i was at work and even took all the presents to the house and put them under the tree. and to her surprise there were roofers at the house working on flashing and shingling the rest of the porch roof. so that was pretty awesome as well. 
so anyway, i think that covers all the things i forgot to mention in the last post, so getting back to THIS update...

[saturday]
well friday night we had made a solid decision that we were going to move out of the apartment this weekend[dec.20|21] because we didnt want to end up doing it over christmas and we definitely didnt want to pay another months rent at an apartment. so saturday we had decided to pack up and start moving stuff to the apartment and then sunday to do a lot of the same until we were out of the apartment for good. [hah, things never go quite the way you plan them to...] 
additionally, since i hadnt had a chance to go christmas shopping just yet, only purchased a number of things online, i was going to take some time in the morning to go and do all of my christmas shopping that still needed to be done and karen was going to start packing while i was out. 
well luckily things went pretty smoothly on saturday morning. i went out to do my shopping and got pretty lucky at it. i found just what i was looking for right away at the stores i went to and the traffic was only mildly horrific. after the shopping and a few coordinating phone calls to josh as far as whom was getting what for whom, i headed to the house to wrap my presents away from karens surprise ruining little eyes and was finished with everything by lunch time. 
not a minute after id finished wrapping presents karen called wondering when id be home and telling me that she was starting lunch, so by the time i got the apartment it was practically ready and i was greeted with not only a lovely lunch but also a ton of boxes packed and ready to go. karen had been a busy little worker all morning and had done a great job getting reay for the first load from the apartment to the house.
after lunch we loaded up and again it was getting very cold out and made for a very cold move. by the time we finished the first load we were both freezing and lunch-coma was sinking in so we decided to take a break and snuggle up on the couch for warmth and relaxation. well... that break turned into an evening, lol. and we didnt get much else accomplished on saturday, haha. we got hooked on a tv show and before we knew it wed watched a bunch of episodes and time had melted away. but all wasnt lost, we still had a whole other day to move and we had made a nice dent in what was at the apartment. 

now then, on a sad note, i feel like i should tell you all a side story about saturday as well. as youve all read by now, im sure, we've been attending a church near by since we moved here and pretty regularly at that. well as with most churches this one does a christmas production and apparently its a pretty big production at that. ive spent many years involved in christmas plays back at home in tx, its practically been a tradition in itself for the majority of my life, and id always thought that it was a pretty major event. but let me tell you, comparatively, this thing at our church in cincy was way bigger. theyd been showing us video clips of last years "awaited" and it was some serious stuff. there was all kinds of multi-media flare, pyro-technics, and more.
anyway, karen and i had reserved tickets to go and see the show on saturday night and were looking forward to it until friday afternoon. this is where the story gets sad. on friday afternoon the church released a statement about an incident that happened thursday night and as a result cancelled the rest of the shows for this year. 
basically in all of the production extravagance, there were some parts that involved a lot of people on wires flying around and such, which is pretty cool if you ask me and a great way to really use the huge volume of space that we have in the church auditorium. i dont want to get crazy images in your head or anything, so let me explain. there was one part where three girls, representing the 3 wise men apparently, were wired up and more or less were flying in from the upper part of the auditorium down to the stage level as part of a scene. well apparently one of the girls wires broke or come undone in some way and she fell 25 feet. she was immediately rushed to the hospital, the show for the evening was obviously canceled, and she was listed in critical condition. well as of friday morning, the poor girl passed away and as a result the church cancelled all of the remaining shows. so all that to say we didnt get to go although we were looking forward to it, but more-so to ask that you keep that family in your prayers as this will undoubtedly be a very difficult christmas for them. 

[sunday]
sunday morning we woke up refreshed from our relaxation and ready to work. we knew we had a lot left to do if we were going to get into the house and out of the apartment. so after our morning routine we started packing up and by 10 we were ready to start loading up for the first haul. well, i went out to back the truck up to the door and as soon as i hit the door, the cold hit me, and boy-howdy was it a knock-out! the temperature had dropped significantly outside and it was now most definitely the coldest out that it had been yet. we didnt know it at the time but we later found out that it was about 7degrees out for the majority of the day on sunday! well we were definitely unhappy with the weather turning against us so wickedly, but we really had no other options and began loading all of the largest items we could for the first haul. 
after unpacking and doing some cleaning and re-arranging at the house we went back to get packing for the next load and bracing ourselves for the cold. it was bitter cold out and we were miserable in it, and i was very very unhappy about the whole thing. after about an hour of getting things together at the apartment we talked about the reality of our circumstances and about how the house was really in no way ready for us to move into at that point. so after our discussion we decided the best thing to do was take the load we had prepared and then spend the remainder of the day getting the house in a condition that we could actually live in it instead of making ourselves completely empty the apartment that weekend. we still had some time left before the end of the month and after that second load we had the apartment at about 70% empty, with the majority of our necessities at the house. well after we unloaded again in the bitter bitter frigid temperature of 7degrees fahrenheit, we started unpacking and setting up a little and quickly realized we were going to need to make a run to the store before we could move in. so we assembled a list of the things we needed - namely rods and mounting hardware for the closet in the attic so we could actually put away our clothes, and some other smaller items like contact paper and new door/drawer pulls for all the cabinets in the kitchen. you might thing new door/drawer pulls isnt really a necessity item, but as we had been cleaning the kitchen we realized just how disgusting these things really were in addition to being ugly. it was necessary. 
so we bundled up and headed out to the meijer and then the depot to get all the necessary items and spent a little more money than i would have liked for sunday, but we had the things we needed to make the house more liveable. we went home and spent the rest of the night cleaning and putting everything together as best we could. i actually had a lot of fun doing all my little projects: first i hooked up the new chord to the stove, which was something id never done before or even was aware of in my little suburban life back in tx. i didnt know that you could even buy a range without a power chord or that it was remotely normal, lol! anyway, i got that hooked up fairly quickly and what do you know, it worked on the first try! second, i installed on the new hardware on the kitchen cabinets while karen cleaned and started installing contact paper in them. that went very quickly and we're both very happy with the new hardware. lastly i went upstairs and got started on the closet hardware while karen cleaned the bathroom. im happy to report it went very well and i got both of our new 8ft rods installed and level without any hiccups and karen was able to start getting her clothes in there as well. 
by about 9 we were both starting to get tired and karen had settled down to do some ironing in front of the tv and i got to trying to get the tv series wed been watching online to come on. well dont ask me how i did it, but i managed to lock myself out of the damn router and i couldnt remember the passwords to get back in and i was pretty unhappy about it. we ended up watching an episode on her laptop [which was still working] before bed and i would just have to figure out how to reset my router monday after work.
the only other thing to report on sunday was that the roofers were out again! and on a sunday!! while they were there they flashed the porch roof and finally finished the remainder of the shingling, so now all the shingling is done and it looks great! as far as i can tell the only things that the roofers still have left to do is some trip work, some flashing, some painting, and installing the new gutters. but hopefully thatll go pretty quickly, keep your fingers crossed! 

[monday]
haha, well, we spent our first night at the house! and it was a cold one! brrrrrr! we stayed pretty warm snuggled up in the bed, karen is an awesome space heater, hehe, but the morning was ridiculously cold. we still had the thermostat programmed at 50 and we were pretty set to leave it that way to try and save some money, especially since we were only occupying the attic space for the most part anyway. but damn that morning it was cold! i got up and staggered into the bathroom only to discover that someone had replaced our tile floor with blocks of dry-ice! im surprised i havent lost any toes yet to be quite honest. well i turned on the shower and the hot water came on just fine, but the cold water didnt... uh-oh. well we are lucky enough to have the new hot water heater and it gets hot really really well, so well in fact that without the cold water on itll scald you pretty damn easily. so this wasnt good for us. the cold water wouldnt come on no matter how i turned it and on top of that the tub wast draining. ef. so i roused my sleeping wife [much to her dismay, i assure you] and we decided we were going to have to run to the apartment to shower and get dressed and then come back to the house for breakfast and coffee before work. hopefully we wouldnt be late on top of all that. so we got packed up with what we needed and headed over to the apartment [my wife was NOT happy with me, haha, she was just a tad grumpy not getting her usual extra hour of sleep in the morning]. well the kicker here is that the temperature had dropped yet again! it was seriously just ridiculous outside. they informed us on the radio as we were headed to the apartment that it was 3 degrees outside!! brr... i left denver for a reason, and it was it. i do not like it to be in the single digits outside. id prefer it to never get below 40 if we're being honest. [make that 60 for karen, lol!] well we managed to get showered and dressed and back to the house for breakfast and coffee and then off to work and still make it only 5 minutes late. but wow was it cold. it was so cold that it hurt. seriously. my toes hurt like heck and my legs did as well. 
id looked all over for my thermal underwear but i couldnt find them in all the moving madness and could figure out where in the world they might be, so after work karen and i made a trip to target to get some new ones for me and to get her some period because she didnt have any. after that we went home to try and fix our two problems, the shower and the internet. well we got some drain-o for the shower at target and i was ready to call the router manufacturer if necessary. first the shower. we went and turned it on and the cold water was working. actually, by the time wed left that morning it had finally kicked on, but only just before we left. i dont know if it was just taking its time getting up to the attic or if there was a block or a freeze in the line, but it took about 20 minutes to finally kick on that morning - however the tub still wasnt draining in the morning. well that evening the water had finally drained during the day and we had the drain-o so we poured it in and let it do its thing and luckily i can report that it was fixed. next was the internet. well i sat down with it being less tired and having a lot more patience and after restoring the router to factory settings and setting it up from scratch, i had it working properly again and got karen and i both re-connected to our network, problem solved! 
additionally we were blessed to have a number of packages arrive in the mail from my parents and some that id ordered for karen, so i wrapped while karen worked on dinner and we discovered that one of the presents from my parents was broken, bummer... but we're getting that taken care of, so no worries!

[tuesday]
well thats today, haha, and im at work right now. this morning went much much smoother. the shower worked properly and man it was nice. very hot, very soothing, and when i got out i found that there was a literal cloud in my bathroom hanging about 6 inches from the ceiling, so that was pretty interesting. it dissipated pretty quickly, dont worry. the morning was still very cold, especially that dry-ice bathroom floor [we really need to find our bathmats this evening!] but we got back into our normal routine with ease. karen got her extra hour of sleep [and was much happier about it, lol!] and i got lunches and breakfast made with no problems. we left for work on time and we actually made it in right on time! its still frigid out, but the temperature has made its way up into the lower 20's now. according to my internet its 22degrees out right now, which is much better, but its still really cold.
however there is one small probelm. yesterday i promised you all pictures, and i came in with my camera fully intending to deliver. however, after a struggle to get them off[the camera battery is dead and that proved to be an obstacle], i discovered that none of the pictures of the tree had turned out - they were all blurred, probably from a combination of very low battery and low light levels. so i have to apologize for not putting any up, and i promise to try and take better ones this evening when we get home. but for now, thats all ive got to report, you are all caught up to the very minute and i better try and find something to do now at work, haha!

happy holidays to you all, we love and miss you and hope you have a very merry christmas!!

p.s. to those of you that havent recieved our christmas card yet, we promise we'll try and get them to you as soon as we can!! love you!!

12.22.2008

as.the.mercury.falls[part.two]

so i think ill just pick up right where i left off..

the.week.of.december.15|19

well it was quite a week, and quite a long one at that. although, when friday arrived it felt like it ended very quickly. its such an odd feeling the way the days can drag on forever but in the end it feels like just the twinkle of an eye. maybe its the monotony of life at times, or maybe im just getting older, either way this week was exhausting at the very least. 
[monday]
we had a project that was going out on wednesday so monday was a pretty crazy day. i spent the entire day working on redlines and put in a few hours of overtime in the process. after working through lunch and up till after 7pm i logged in over 11hours on monday and by the time we got home i was exhausted. 
[tuesday] 
tuesday looked pretty much exactly like monday only instead of a little over 11 hours, it was a little over 10. not that that made it a whole lot better, i just actually took my lunch break, haha. additionally by the afternoon of tuesday i was starting to sneeze a little and wonder if i might be catching a cold. theres been all kinds of stuff going around the office for weeks now, most of it im sure originates with my fellow co-workers kids and gets passed around to all the rest of us. either way, i was worried i might be getting sick, but didnt think too much of it. 
[wednesday]
yeah i was definitely getting sick. i woke up feeling  a little worse, a slight headache some congestion - but not bad - and still sneezing a little. well, by the time lunch came around i was sneezing my head off, my eyes were watering like crazy and it was very difficult to do my work, and i was really feeling like crap. i had busted my butt all morning to try and help as much as i could with getting all the redlines finished, but by lunch i was finished. i was sick. and i was going home. so thats exactly what i did, after a quick trip to the grocery store for tissues, medicine, and some snacks, i spent the rest of the day on the couch in front of the tv. 
[thursday] 
i woke up thinking i was going to go to work. i got up, got showered, started getting dressed, had a glass of orange juice and soon started having serious hot flashes and nausea... hoping it would pass i attempted to finish getting dressed but soon discovered that the hot flashes were not going to be passing anytime soon and as long as they were around the nausea would be accompanying them. so with at that point i laughed at myself and tried to figure out why i was killing myself to go to work sick, gave up and put on some comfy clothes. after dropping karen off at work my nausea had subsided some and the hot flashes hat extinguished themselves some as well, but i didnt want to take and chances and went straight home and hopped in bed. 
i woke up around 10:30 frantic because id drifted off without setting an alarm and worried i was late with karens lunch. i had promised to bring her some because in all the excitement of my sickness the night before and in the morning we hadnt had time to pack anything. well, relieved that there was still plenty of time to spare i quickly got dressed, loaded up the truck and headed out. now then, loaded up the truck youre asking, with what? well wednesday night karen and i had wrapped all of our presents to be sent to texas and had stuffed about half the envelopes with out christmas card to go to their various new homes. so far i think karens half is all that were done and mine were ready to go but hadnt just yet. 
anyway, the first stop i made was to the fed-ex where i soon discovered that 2 out of 3 of the boxes we had packed the night before with presents were not suitable for transport viz fed-ex, lol. well it wasnt much of a problem to remedy the packing situation and 20 minutes later all of my packages were on their merry way, and after a quick drive through at the post office all of the christmas cards were as well. the next stop was quiznos downtown to pick up lunch for karen and possibly myself if i was feeling up to it by the time i got home. well after i finished at quiznos i made it to karens office at 11:55 and since she wasnt answering her cell phone [as usual] i decided to venture upstairs to drop off her lunch in person. i was greeted at the front desk by the co-worker i previously mentioned [cassandra] and we had a few laughs while i waited for karen to find her way to the front. 
well, by the time i made it home i wasnt feeling up to the sandwich anymore so i let it sit on the coffee table while i tried to find something to watch on tv. i finally ended up watching million dollar baby because karen had it at the apartment [one of the 3 movies she owned, and all of which i miraculously didnt already own] and id never seen it. well i watched it and about halfway through decided to eat the sandwich and made it through okay. the movie didnt go as well, i was very dissatisfied with it but i thought it was a much better movie than id anticipated. id been putting off watching it for quite some time fearing it would really, well...suck, based on the previews id seen and all the hype around it. anyway, it was a pretty good movie but i was really angry at the story. 
so anyway, after the movie i decided i was feeling up to another errand - the medicine seemed to be helping a little as i wasnt sneezing anymore and my eyes were hardly watering at all. so we'd gotten the energy bill in the mail a couple nights before and it was wildly outrageous and the problem is that it was based on estimates only because they havent been able to read our meter. well, they cant read our meter because its locked in our basement. anyway they were estimating our usage on average use and since we werent even in the house and had the thermostat set at 50 we were certain our bill should be significantly less. anyway we called the energy company and asked what we could do and they said we could do our own meter reading and theyd re-evaluate our bill accordingly. so i decided i was feeling up to doing this and taught myself to read the meters via the energy company's website's how-to guide. well i wont lie, it wasnt nearly as cut and dry as id hoped, but after a quick phone call to the energy company and having the woman on the phone with me as i read it off, i soon found that it wasnt nearly as difficult as my feeble mind was making it. anyway, i got the woman on the phone the new reading and it brought our bill down a little, but not nearly as much as wed like, so we're just telling ourselves that the guy read it wrong when he first hooked it up and that itll all work itself out from now on, heh, right. 
well to my surprise, when i went to the house i found the roofers there and working! they hadnt appeared to have done anything for the entire week [mostly because it had been raining, and then snowing] but they were there and actively working. they were shingling the porch roof and were all smiles as i was coming and going. so thats some good news, progress is always good news!
well thats about all the excitement for friday. by the of the day i was feeling only a little better having medicated all day and was hoping that some good sleep would do wonders in the way of healing me.
[friday]
well friday morning came and i was feeling about 75% out of a possible 100%. good enough i suppose. so i went about the business of getting up and dressed and such and made karen get out of bed to take me to work. karen took off from worn friday on account of a dr.'s appointment. dont worry, shes fine, just a check up - the problem is that shes on the schools insurance so she can really only schedule the appointments during work hours, so she had to take off. anyway, so i went to work and then we had a pretty nice relaxing evening at home. 

alright, so that brings us up to this weekend and all of its excitements and ill be happy to share those with you in the next installment of this series, lol! [along with the pictures, i promise!]

goodnight everyone!

as.the.mercury.falls[part.one]

well first let me apologize for how long its been since i last posted and for getting some of you worried about us. i assure you karen and i are fine, we've just been extra busy as of late and then i got sick for a bit on top of that, so i've gotten a bit behind on telling our little stories. so please, do forgive me. 

the.weekend.of.december.13|14

well its been a while and i'll admit im rather fuzzy on all the exact details of what happened over a week ago, but i can definitely relay the to you all the major milestones of the weekend. 
[the.roof]
well as of this weekend[dec13-14], the roof had finally made some progress! on friday the guys had come out and worked on shingles some more and we were really coming along! byt he time saturday rolled around we had shingles on the entire front of the house on the mansard roof, and then the entire back as well. the only part on the mansard roof that didnt have shingles was a strip on the side of the house about 20ft long. and since it was the weekend, we certainly didnt expect to see any roofers out, so we were celebrating in what had been accomplished for the rest of the weekend. 
[moving|remodeling]
so when i last updated you we had moved a large part of the storage unit out and we were pretty pleased with ourselves. well over this weekend[dec13-14] we were able to officially move out of the storage unit. and with good timing too, haha, it was pretty much a necessity considering we would have had to pay rent again on the 15th. but after 2 more trips we were able to get every last scrap out of the storage unit and move all but the empty boxes to the house, the empty boxes went to the apartment to be used at a future time for packing that up. also, while moving everything out of storage, we were able to get the majority of it onto the second and third floors and into the rooms that the things will be living in either temporarily or permanently[well, as permanent as we can imagine this far in advance anyway].
additionally, we made some strides in the remodeling sector of things over this weekend[dec13-14] as well. no, we didnt actually get around to any projects, but we did get out to the depot for our weekly meeting [it feels like remodeling-anonymous at this point, i swear it...], and we're able to get some much needed advice and a few accessories as well. for starters paint - we discussed the issues we've been having with the paint-pro at home depot and he tried to help us figure out what changes we could make to fix our problems. first of all the application, when painting with this shade of paint [its a red of sorts] its a good idea to never "roll out" or "dry roll" your roller before re-wetting it. the best way to do it is to always "roll wet" and use very light pressure - good to know. secondly was the product, we were pretty unhappy with the thin-ness of the paint and with the sheen, even though its only a satin sheen, it was still showing every little bump and "character flaw" in our hundred year old plaster walls. when we mentioned the sheen the first thing he asked was if we were painting plaster, and when we nodded dumbfounded, he chuckled and suggested we switch to a flat enamel instead of the satin latex we were using. so hopefully with these changes in our panting schematics, we can successfully finish this entryway with under 3 coats.[keep your fingers crossed anyway...]
the next major thing on our depot agenda was the attic bathroom. if we were planning to move into this house any time soon we were going to want that bathroom fully functional - which meant fixing or replacing the busted toilet currently residing within. well considering the professional plumber attempted to fix it to no avail and i have no experience with plumbing of any kind we opted for the replacing option and decided to look at pricing toilets... just what were we getting into? well it turned out that they had 2 options within our price range and after discussing at length with the toilet-pro we decided on the higher priced of the two options and got all of the necessary accessories for installation - new wax ring, caulk, caulk gun, etc. again, we didnt actually install the toilet, but we bought it and got it in the house so that was a big step! the majority of the weekend was spent moving everything in what was the coldest weather yet at that point, somewhere around 19degrees out. it was bitter cold and mixed in with moving we were trying to do some cleaning in the kitchen and other rooms as well as we went along. 
[christmas]
well over this weekend[dec13-14] we had two christmas-related events take place. first was that we finally decided to go and buy a christmas tree and ornaments and start the decorating process at the house, and second was karen and my christmas parties for work. karens party was pretty fun i guess. it was fairly small maybe 15 people from her work, i think it was just the section she works in - retail - and a few other people who were there. they played a little white elephant with a craps twist and in the end it was actually fun. i met a co-worker of karens, cassandra, who was pretty funny and i liked her, so thats always a plus. 
my christmas party was a polar opposite to karens. first of all it was huge. everyone from my office was there - roughly 35 people total - plus all of their spouses and kids. it was pretty insane, i wont lie. there must have been at least 30 kids running around ranging in age from newborns up to i think 12yrs old. it was the first real christmas party id ever been to for work and the only one id ever heard of with kids invited. but my boss is a real softy apparently, he went all out for the kids. first the party was held at the cincinnati fire fighters museum so there were tons of displays and fire-fighter memorabilia for the kidos to run around playing with. and second, he must have spent a fortune on gifts for the little rug-rats. ever single kid got a 10 dollar gift card to the museum gift shop and then they each got a pretty nice present from him as well. i mean like high quality laser-tag gear kind of presents. i was a little jealous, lol!
lastly, the decorating. well we'd been discussing getting a tree for a while and while we werent wanting to spend a lot of money on one, we definitely did want one. so karen had done a lot of looking on craigslist for a while and hadnt really come up with much. there were a lot of options but they were all going really fast. every time shed call they'd already be gone or they wouldnt return her calls, so we kind of gave up on the craigslist thing. my thought was biglots. i know that id seen stuff like that there before for really cheap, so i figured it was our best bet. places like walmart and target that wed already looked at were in the 60+ range for a small tree and we were definitely not looking to spend that before ornaments and stuff - of which we had nothing. well luckily there was a biglots nearby and even more luckily we were able to find a tree for 20 bucks! its nothing spectacular, just a little 6ft pre-lit tree and honestly, after we put it up we laughed at how sparse and pathetic the poor thing really was. we'd fluffed our hearts out on this poor tree for only god knows how long trying to make it look fuller, but there was just no hope, lol! well after the tree at biglots our next stop was the dollar-tree. haha, yeah, we're cheap, and yeah we're broke. but 30bucks later we had a ton of ornaments, tinsel, and other decor and it really didnt look like ghetto crap. the only other stop we made was at burlington coat factory because when we'd been there the time before id noticed a big container of ornaments for fairly cheap - luckily they still had one and it had 50 ornaments for only 9 bucks! thats a bargain in my book for sure, and these were definitely a few rungs up from the dollar-store stuff in terms of quality.
well after decorating and adding some christmas light that i had in storage and that we'd gotten over halloween the tree honestly did look amazing. you cant tell for a single second that that little tree is a piece of crap because it is hiding in the emperors clothes, i assure you. we are honestly astonished at the transformation and what we were able to pull off with just those really cheap decorations from the dollar store, lol!

well friends and family, thats all for now. i know i only just barely started, but ive gotta get back to work now. 
i promise to update more soon and add pictures!

love and miss you all!